What is a 'Good' Relationship?

Assessing relationships involves value judgements. There is no simple model of what defines a 'good' relationship in all contexts. Examples of the characteristics of relationships which might be sought could include:

• accountability
• legitimacy
• equity
• transparency
• stability
• inclusiveness
• flexibility
• minimal risk
• maximum opportunity

These values reflect different underlying relationships. A commitment to certain values by one individual or institution influences the conduct of a relationship. It can also have much wider repercussions affecting other groups and relationships.

Different relationship structures may foster or undermine different values. For example, accountability in relationships is influenced by the power structure and effectiveness of communication processes.

Another approach to evaluation of a relationship is assessing whether the preconditions for close and effective relationships are being put in place. These preconditions are regarded as necessary for a 'good' relationship to develop - without forgetting that a ‘good’ relationship also depends on the actions of the parties to the relationship. If the preconditions are right then an effective relationship is much more likely to develop.

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